Freitag, 17. April 2015

Relationship advice I gave whilst being Single

Freitag, 17. April 2015
I don´t know why all of my friends think I´m a good source to get relationship advice since I´ve never been in a serious relationship, but still they come to me and ask for it.
Not sure if it helped at all haha, but maybe it could help you?


Do more of what makes you happy
Just ask yourself 'Am I happy?'
Whatever makes you feel bad, leave it. 
Whatever makes you smile, keep it. 
As simple as that.

Think about who you want to be
Never lose yourself loving someone else (been there, done that), 
always remember who you are and who you want to be.
For example:
Instead of apologizing to anyone, you first should consider 
whether you want to be that kind of person you´re turning into, 
because then there´s no apology needed.

He´s just not that into you
If you haven´t seen the movie, go watch it right now. It´s an eye opener. Because it truly does not make sense to encourage your best friend that he totally fancies her if the signs are damn clear that he doesn´t. Just spare her the pain from the beginning. 
If a guy likes you, he will make an effort.
If not:
Honey, there are plenty fishes in the sea.


Trust the timing of your life
Don´t stress the could haves, if it should have, it would have.
(But: I don´t think it´s an accident when you fit perfectly into the crook of someone´s neck)

Love yourself first
I often ask this question myself.
How can I expect a guy to love me if I don´t even love myself?
Before you give away your heart, 
make sure it´s not broken.

They can´t treat you like shit and then expect that you love them
Furthermore, your value doesn´t decrease,
 based on someones inability to see your worth.

A lot can happen between now & never
I know a lot of people say this,
but it is true:
If you are constantly looking for 'the one', 
you´ll never find him.
But if you stop looking, suddenly all guys are running after you.



Don´t let anyone give you the feeling you don´t deserve what you want
This is your life!
You deserve every peace of happiness you can get there.
And if a guy thinks otherwise, than give him a pretty piece of your mind! 
Don´t let someone with the significance of a speed bump become the roadblock of your life.


'Love is trust in advance'



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